Sunday, October 26, 2014

What do I do with 11 month old triplets?

So since the boys are quickly (too quickly!!) approaching their one year birthday, I thought it would be fun to update you on our current schedule with the boys with some running commentary from yours truly!  ENJOY!

- Wake up is still at 7am (they usually start babbling at around 6:30)
- They have a bottle upon waking up (FULL COW'S MILK SINCE YESTERDAY!!! BYE BYE FORMULA Y'ALL!!!!!)  Although I caved and I am warming their milk... Only for their morning and night bottles because they'll completely refuse and cry if I offer it to them cold.  I really didn't want to do it but then I don't have time to fight with my babies.  Besides, like my mom said, who doesn't like a hot beverage in the morning and perhaps even a hot chocolate at night?  I will cave to my little buddies and give them a warm bottle, what's a minute and a half in the microwave?  Yes, I warm it in the microwave, yes I shake it to ensure there are no hot spots, so no, I will not burn my sons' mouth... chill you judgy judgy people!  haha...  The rest of the day, they'll take their milk cold in sippies.  They're still not the biggest fans but they're getting some in.  I was getting worried that they weren't taking in enough milk but my pediatrician called me to assure me that they were doing fine.
- After their morning bottle, I'll change their bums.  I used to do it before bottles but now the moment they're down on the floor, they cry for their bottles so bums stay wet for an extra 15 minutes.

Here is an attempted time lapse video of how the bottle routine is done... Jacob ruined it when he realized he was on video...haha



- After bottles and bum changes, it's play time until breakfast.  During this 45 minutes of play time, I'll start loading the dishwasher, come back in the living room to change a poopy bum, go back and finish loading, come back to the living room because my trio is at the baby gate crying their eyes out, change yet another poopy bum, notice that one of them spit up, clean the spit up off their pyjamas, search for the mystery spit up spot in the living room, find the spot because another baby is playing with it, I'll soothe a baby who tried to get into their toy car without opening the door and smacked his head on the floor, then I sneak away to go make breakfast.
- Breakfast at 8, mostly baby cereal with fruit still.  Sometimes I'll make them a bagel with peanut butter and a cut up banana or sometimes they'll get lucky and I'll make them French Toast or pancakes (that's normally on the weekends as Gabe is home and I can spend more time in the kitchen doing the more fancy stuff).
- After breakfast, we have singing time where they sit in their high chairs and I sing all sorts of nursery rhymes.  Their current favorites?  Itsy Bitsy Spider (with my weird exaggerated animations), Little Green Frog, Un éléphant qui se balançait, Au clair de la lune & Frère Jacques.  I don't know that many but with the activity at the library I'm learning more.  I then put on Toc Toc Toc (a French show) and put them in their play pen while I clean up breakfast and get their clothes ready for the day.  One at a time, I'll give them a quick sponge bath before dressing them for the day.  I'll probably have to change another poopy bum (that's 6 diapers changes by 8:30am for those who are counting).   I'll brush their teeth (which feels like pulling teeth with Jacob... man he hates that!  It's like trying to get a dog to swallow a pill...  have you ever tried that?  Impossible!  Maybe I'll start putting peanut butter on the toothbrush! haha... defeat the purpose much?)  I'll dress them, play for another 15 minutes and then off to nap #1!  Tired yet??  It's only 8:45am... haha...
- They'll nap anywhere from 45 minutes to an hour during which I do a load of laundry and either watch one of my shows or do some cleaning.
- They get up at around 10 and we'll play for a bit and have a snack.  Then, if my mom is over, we'll go to Wal-Mart, Costco or run some other errand.  If she's not here, if it's nice out, I'll load the boys in the wagon and go for a little walk.  They love their wagon walks and it's been really crappy out this week so they haven't had their wagon walk at all this week due to this stupid rain that just won't stop!  Hopefully it'll get somewhat better this week and we'll be able to resume our regular activities.
- Lunch is at noon and they have a variety of food, normally a protein with some grain and then fruit.  I try to give them milk and we're working on that but they'll maybe drink one or two ounces at max.  So that's annoying because they just love dropping their sippy cups on the floor.  I must pick them up off the floor at least 15 times until I give up.
- After lunch, it's back into the playpen while I clean up all the mess on the floor and on their tray.  We play for 15 - 30 minutes, depending on how tired they are and then down for nap #2!  Another blissful hour of to 1.5 hours of silence.  This is when I'll put the laundry in the dryer, unload the dishwasher and check emails, Facebook, etc.  Just have some ME time.  I've always followed the EASY method and I take the Y (you) part very seriously!  That is one thing that I think saved my sanity, taking time to just chill and not be "on" all the time because if I were, I'd have gone totally bonkers!!  Besides, my sons will not keep me away from Parenthood, Grey's Anatomy or Scandal! No siree!! haha...
- They'll stay in their crib until 2:30pm and it's play time again!  The living room looks like I run a daycare now!  The boys love playing with bigger toys now so the living room is getting crowded!  We had to remove the baby jail since Jacob was becoming a danger to himself by trying to climb over it.  We got scared that he would fall over and hurt himself bad.  We're trying to baby proof the whole living room and since it's an enclosed space, with the baby gate, it's just become its own big baby containment center.  Gabe is currently changing our tv stand as the one we currently have is completely open.  Our new one has doors that should keep the boys at bay from our tv stuff.
- At around 3 we have another snack time, usually a banana and some Mum Mums with peanut butter or hummus (which I hate but I'm trying to not transfer my dislikes to my children... other things I hate but they seem to like: peas & green beans).  While they snack, I try to clean up more around the kitchen and unload the dishwasher if I didn’t have time yet.  This is nice because they can normally feed themselves and that liberates me tackle other tasks. 
- After snack time, we either play, watch some “Baby Babble” (which has saved my sanity at times... thanks YouTube!), or go for a wagon walk if we haven’t gone in the morning.  I sometimes take a longer walk at this time if I feel like being healthy but that doesn’t often happen.  I know I know... I should but give me a break; most of the time, I’m just trying to get through the day. 
- We get home and play some more.  I try to incorporate some learning playtime but it’s hard when there are three of them.  I try to read but there are at least two eating the book or swatting at it.  I try to teach them motor skills but while I work with one, the other two are either getting in trouble or trying to climb on top of me.  Mostly, we just play on the floor and laugh or I’ll let them play independently.  It doesn’t seem to slow them down in their development so I don’t feel that bad.  As an educator, I wish I could do more, but I do what I can and hope for the best.  So what if my children won’t read by the time they’re two?  So what if they still can’t point at their nose as the development email I got says they should now be able to do by now?  They’ll do it at their own pace and that’s ok with me. 
- Daddy gets home between 4 and 4:15 (yeah!!! Relief!!!) and he takes over while I start preparing supper.  He sometimes feels bad that I’m always the one making supper but it’s another “Y” time for me that I really enjoy. 
- Supper is at 5 and unless we’re eating something they can’t handle yet (Chicken Quesadillas, Pita Pizza, etc.) they’re eating a version of what we eat. 
- After supper, Pépère Arsenault takes them for about a 45 minute walk.  This gives Gabe and I time to clean up supper and the boys’ mess, watch Ellen, and have our own supper.  The boys normally take a small nap on the walk depending on how well they slept during their afternoon nap.  Yesterday, they gave us a whole TWO HOURS of afternoon nap time!  This never happens!  Samuel had woken up about 45 minutes in and was babbling away and I knew that if I went to get him, within an hour, he’d be pretty fussy so I let him babble and whatdoyouknow he fell back asleep and they all slept until THREE! Man I was excited… but that was a fluke that didn’t happen today.  It was ok today though because one of my BFFs Ainslie (who just got her PhD by the way, GO AINS!!! xx) came to visit and she got a chance to visit with the boys before she had to head back to Halifax.  Send some positive vibes that they start giving me some two hours naps when I’m alone!!

This is the longest schedule update eh?  Sorry, almost done!

- When Pépère gets back, it’s bath time for one of the boys.  Since they still don’t get really dirty during the day, I alternate their bathing nights.  I tried bathing them all at once the other day, alone, as they had peanut butter from head to toe and it didn’t go so well.  Who do you leave in the bathtub while getting the other ones?  Your least favorite? Haha?  That changes day to day… I figured it out but I felt like I had run a half marathon after it was all over (which I’ve never done so I don’t really know but I imagine that’s how it feels like). 
- After bath time, it’s bum changes, pyjamas and bottles.  We try to time pyjamas and bottles very closely because they associate the pyjama with bottle and if the bottles aren’t ready to go, they are not happy campers! 
- Are you ready for this day to finally end??  After bottles, we play for about 20 minutes and then it’s at long last… BED TIME!!! We hardly ever hear them cry, so when they do, it’s super surprising and we know there’s something up but we let them cry for about 10 minutes and 95% of the time, they fall asleep within that time frame. 
- After bed time, we chat with my in laws for a bit and then we are both done from exhaustion.  Unless one of us has an outing or an errand to run, we veg on the couch browsing the internet or watch a sitcom and sadly, we often forget, in our haze, that one another exists.  We’re trying harder now to make time for discussion but we like our routine, and we are still married after almost a full year of raising triplets so that says a lot about us I think.  We very seldom fight, unless you count eye rolling or heavy sighing as fighting…lol. 
- Bed time for me is about 10pm and then we start all over the next day. 

It sounds draining I know, but when my mom is here, it makes it easier, and weekends are great because Gabe is with me.  I am lucky to have, for the most part, very content little boys so that’s another plus.  My life is filled with exhaustion for sure, but mostly, it’s filled with joy, laughter and so much love I can’t even handle it.  Don’t ever feel an ounce of pity for me because I wouldn’t change my life for anything in the world.  More money would be nice though… haha! 

Here are some pictures of the week… 

This is my new version of secure baby jail when I feel they can't be trusted to be left alone

They seem to like it well enough but are often found to be piling one on top of another.  Jacob almost got his face smooshed in the other day by Zachary walking on his face poor little buddy...

Jacob is still being a monkey and trying to climb out! 

Zachary has discovered his new favorite thing to do... play with the door stopper


Another "new to them" favorite toy



I think Zachary spent about 45 minutes playing with it, exploring every side very carefully.  

Mamie brought some cereal boxes to play with.  They didn't realize they had to eat what was inside and not the actual box! 



Yum! Fruit Loop Box! 

How cute is Zach in his little vest?? 

Jacob too!  We only have two so Samuel had to go without... we're looking for a third. 

Jacob thought it would be funny to flip my whole basket of clean laundry over his head... thanks bud! 

They are loving their new open space! 

Jacob looking sweet as ever

This is the upgraded play area (sans baby jail)

Zachary thought it would be fun to stop Jacob by pulling on his necklace to get at the water bottle... Jacob looks pleased eh?

They quickly learned how to empty the organization bins




Samuel looking solemn

With their new Cars couch!  First birthday gift from Matante Cindy & family


One of their favorite toys right now are those lotion bottles.  Samuel had a half hour long conversation with it last night.  Oh, and he started singing... mostly La La La but still cute as ever! 

Jacob showing off his Costco penguin PJ's.  7.99$ y'all!! Carter's too!! It's a steal!  Especially when my mother paid for them! haha... thanks mom!

Zachary seeing what this whole soother thing Jacob loves so much is all about

Jacob's bum hurt today and this is the only position he liked to be in.  

Watching Despicable Me 2 with Daddy



Don't they look so big!!



Gabe and I had a night out on Friday courtesy of our friends MC & Serge who went off gallivanting in Paris and left us tickets to a show they had won... Well these girls blew me away... Les Soeurs Boulay... Even if you're not French, you should have a listen because they are great.  I bought their album today and although they are ten times better live, I'm amazed by their talent.  If you have the chance, have a listen... Les Soeurs Boulay - Mappemonde.
Thanks for following my crazy life everyone!  Have a great week!  



Sunday, October 19, 2014

This and that

Just in case y'all are wondering, Jacob's finger is all better, just like it never happened.  I took off the hanging skin once I saw that it was healing underneath and took off the bandaid the next day.  We saw a bit more blood this week with the boys falling and cutting their lips/tongues with their tongues but nothing that required an ER visit.

Gabe was off this week so we got to spend a lot of family time which was great and I'm sad that he has to go back to work tomorrow.  I think the boys wanted to show him how difficult they could be on Monday as they were just in a blah mood all day.  In the afternoon, they were so cranky that we decided to take them for a drive and ended up at the Parc Rotary in Dieppe and we took advantage of the beautiful weather and took some fall pics.  We also found out that Samuel LOVES dogs.  I saw an old student/athlete of mine and she was there with her girlfriend and their puppy and I just had to see how the boys would react to the dog.  They were all curious but Samuel was just ecstatic.  He was so cute and giggly.  He would've loved Roxy :(  

Some of the things that happened this week:

- As Gabe was changing Jacob's diaper, he got a little worried about an abnormality around his testicles... upon further inspection, it turned out to simply be a piece of ground beef... left over from supper.  

- After trying to call the boys' optometrist about 30 times in two weeks and always getting either a constant ringing or an immediate send off to voicemail saying that the voicemail didn't take messages, I got pretty annoyed so Gabe said we'd just drive over to the office and change the appointment right there.  Upon walking in to the office, he thought for sure the phone would be ringing off the hook or that the secretary would be super busy but that was not the case.  She was just sitting there looking bored.  While he was changing our appointment, he noticed that she bumped an incoming call to voicemail which was fine since she was dealing with Gabe.  Later as he told her to wait as sec as he checked something over with me, he pretended to call me but actually called their office and his call went straight to voicemail.  The whole time he was in there, the phone rang once and she bumped it and the other ones she may have gotten would have gone straight to a voicemail that doesn't take messages... so not impressed to say the least especially since now our appointment has to be when I'm back at work and since I have no sick days left, that kind of sucks.  Had she answered when I first tried to call the office, I may have gotten an appointment sooner than the end of February.   

- Last week I brought my in-laws to the library for the babies at the library activity and this week it was Gabe's turn.  While my mother and I were singing the songs with the rest of the moms, I look over and here's my husband whispering the songs in Samuel's ear as though embarrassed to sing with the rest of us.  It's funny because he'll take out his guitar and sing to the boys but when it comes to nursery rhymes, whether it be in front of strangers or just at home, he won't sing them!  I wonder if he'll make character voices when we start reading to the boys.  And no, we don't read to them yet because I can't keep them off the books.  I tried, it's just not working at the moment.  

- On Friday, my aunt Marie and uncle Ron came by to visit.  It was the first time my uncle had met the boys and they had just gotten up from a pretty crappy nap.  I don't know what happened but all of a sudden, Zachary starting breathing really weird, as though he couldn't catch his breath.  Everyone was telling me that he was fine, he was just scared but I knew there was something wrong as he had never done that before.  He kept shaking his head and taking short intakes of breath and it scared the shit out of me.  I took him outside in the rain so he could get some air and I knew it wasn't an obstruction because every once in a while he'd let out a cry so that reassured me.  I really don't know what caused it, but my uncle and aunt seem to think that he just got super scared when they got close to him.  I seriously think it was a mini panic/anxiety attack.  I don't even know if those exist in babies, but my mom said that she remembers me having the same kind of reaction the first time I met Santa Claus at the mall.  Anyways, it wasn't a pleasant moment...

- Saturday, I got to go to a Moms of Multiples getaway.  There were about 15 of us in a cottage and all I did was sit on a couch, eat some snacks, drink some wine and have amazing conversations.  It really helped put my life in perspective hearing everyone's story.  Just when you think your life is overwhelming and you don't know how much more you can handle, you hear another person's story and bam! your life doesn't seem to be as hectic or crazy as it actually it.  It's like I always say when my friends who have one baby feel bad for complaining about stuff to me: everyone is living their own reality and unless you're living it, you have no idea what it's actually like and everyone is entitled to feel like they're struggling whether they have one, two, three or no children!    The company, food and wine were all amazing but the bed sucked ass!  I slept very poorly due to how hard it was!  I should have drank more and maybe passing out would have made me sleep better! Ha!  I'm glad I didn't get drunk and that I went to bed at a reasonable hour (even if I didn't sleep well), I was a functioning human being this morning (the same can't be said for all of us...haha).  It's nice because I thankfully have two amazing friends who are also moms of multiples and we get to have the extra thing in common.  Alicia, who just had her girls about 2 months ago wasn't able to come this year but I had my friend Mel with me and that was great.  It gave us a chance to spend a good amount of quality time together and I think it helped solidify a friendship that was already pretty strong and that makes me happy.  Hopefully Alicia will join us next year (if Gabe allows me to go again! Fingers crossed our children don't turn into devilish spawns and are still manageable). 

So speaking of Gabe, he had the boys for a full 24 hours pretty much all on his own except for last night when he had help from his dad.  I got some texts (mostly because I asked) and some pictures but I have to say he handled things like a pro.  The boys didn't nap amazingly well and they weren't always happy go lucky and they didn't eat as well as he would have liked, but they had fun nonetheless.  He took them to the mall and gave them a snack where they made a huge mess but as a friend said to me, he'll be forgiven as he's a dad alone with his kids and they're triplets on top of it!  People won't judge him, maybe take pity and the little old ladies might even to lend a hand, but most likely no judgement.  He did good, I'm pretty impressed and it makes me feel ok about leaving him alone with them again if I get the chance again (if he lets me haha).  I got home today expecting to see huge smiles on their faces and I got some, but they were tired and hungry ridden smiles.  We fed them and they went straight to bed and slept for 1.5 hours without a peep!  THAT NEVER HAPPENS!!!  Boys night must have gotten wild last night!  

Alright, momma's tired so I'll finish with pics, as always. 

The view from the cottage

Chilling with some of my fellow moms of multiples :)  (My friend Mel is on the right).  I sat on the couch on the right for about 8 hours straight.  I had some of the best conversations I've ever had while sitting there.  Thanks for sharing your stories ladies... xox

The yummy breakfast that was hand delivered to us.  We also had a yummy supper the night before.  




It was pretty awesome


Some people say they still have a hard time knowing who's who so I'll make sure to write who's who in the pictures from now on.  This is Jacob in a laundry basket loving life and dirty clothes apparently.  

Watching Pink and Dallas Green on Ellen. Man they're good singers

Bébés à la bibliothèque (babies at the library) activity.  This is where all the babies get together and lick each other's saliva off all the toys.  Fun times.  The boys actually love this part.  There were two sets of twins there this week. 

Daddy said screw the rain...we're going for a walk!

Gabe sent me this picture this morning with a caption that said: "All patiently waiting for mommy to arrive".  Melted my heart.  I missed them so much!! 

Zachary

Jacob

Samuel

My little monkey wanting to get closer to Mickey Mouse

Jacob with Zachary in the background

Poor little Zachary was still sleeping at the end of the walk so we left him out there alone for a little bit until I noticed all the freaking mosquitos around him.  

Zachary trying to learn to play guitar. 

Look how hard he's concentrating

Jacob noticing I'm taking pics

Now they're all learning

My niece Alexie trying to read a book to Samuel. 

Smooched faced Jacob.  This picture makes me laugh out loud every time I look at it. 

Jacob...again.  There are a lot of pictures of Jacob this week...

Jacob trying hard to travel from one exersaucer to the other. 

He failed.  This is about the point he started crying and Gabe had to go rescue him. 

The boys sharing grapes with Papa as he's trying to deal with stupid Bell Aliant.  



This is the start of our fall pics of the week

They weren't quite sure what to do in here but they seemed to like it. 

How cute would it have been if we had been able to get Jacob to do the same?  No go :(





This is how much Samuel loved this dog.  How cute is he?  I mean Samuel.  The dog is pretty adorable too though! 

This is where Samuel got a little too intense with his dog loving ways.  His kisses and hair pulling got to be a little too much for the poor pup.  


Jacob

Zachary

Samuel having the time of his life with those leaves


Zachary...right before putting that leaf in his mouth

Jacob trying to sit on Zachary's head

Jacob... notice how he lost a shoe?  I can't keep shoes on those kids!! 

Samuel is also one shoed...

Samuel didn't like the laying down in the leaves photo op mom was trying to get

Zachary, being the good kid, had both shoes on.  Good boy! 




Have a good week everyone!